2010年8月14日星期六

[a boyfriend should do this for his girlfriend]

#1 When you break her heart, the pain never really goes away.

#2 When she misses you, she’s hurting inside.

#3 When she says it’s over, she still wants you to be hers.

#4 When she walks away from you mad, follow her.

#5 When she stares at your mouth, kiss her.

#6 When she pushes or hits you, grab her tight & don’t let her go.

#7 When she starts cursing at you, kiss her and tell her you love her.

#8 When she ignores you, give her your attention.

#9 When she pulls away, pull her back.

#10 When you see her at her worst, tell her she’s beautiful.

#11 When you see her crying, just hold her and don’t say a word.

#12 When you see her walking, sneak up and hug her waist from behind.

#13 When she’s scared, protect her.

#14 When she lays her head on your shoulder, tilt her head up and kiss her.

#15 When she steals your favourite jacket, let her keep it and sleep with it for a night.

#16 When she teases you, tease her back and make her laugh.

#17 When she doesn’t answer for a long time, reassure her that everything is okay.

#18 When she looks at you with doubt, back yourself up with the truth.

#19 When she says that she likes you, she really does more than you could understand.

#20 When she grabs your hands, hold hers and play with her fingers.

#21 When she bumps into you, bump into her back and make her laugh.

#22 When she tells you a secret, keep it safe and untold.

#23 When she looks at you in your eyes, don’t look away until she does.

#24 Stay on the phone with her even if she’s not saying anything.

#25 Don’t let her have the last word.

#26 Don’t call her hot, but gorgeous or beautiful is so much better.

#27 Say you love her more than she could ever love you.

#28 Argue that she is the best girl ever
#29 When she’s mad, hug her tight and don’t let go.

#30 When she says she’s OK,don’t believe it,talk to her about it,because 10 yrs later she’ll still remember it.

#31 Call her at 12:00am on special occasions to tell her you love her.

#32 Call her before you sleep and after you wake up.

#33 Treat her like she’s all that matters to you.

#34 Don’t ignore her when she’s out with you and your friends.

#35 Stay up all night with her when she’s sick.

#36 Watch her favorite movie with her or her favorite show even if you think its stupid.

#37 Let her into your world.

#38 Let her wear your clothes.

#39 When she’s bored and sad, hang out with her

#40 Let her know she’s important.

#41 Kiss her in the pouring rain.

#42 When she runs up at you crying, the first thing you say is; “Who’s ass am I kicking today baby?”

#43 After she reads this, she hopes one day you’d read it too.


dear,juz read what i had highlight
and please do it
even it is difficult 4 u
but pls try ur best

 

[i just wanna back to the moment that we stay sweet,can?]

[對不起]

今天我又無理取鬧了
對不起
我說過我不會管的
但不知覺的
我又在吃醋了
不懂怎麼了
原來我還是很在意你
你知道爲什麽最近我都很少問你在做么在哪裡跟誰在一起
我不敢問
怕你不喜歡
我很想知道
真的很想
現在我也不會問
我會等有一天你自己自動跟我說
不用我問你都會告訴我
我期待
期待見到你
期待看到你的笑容
期待和你在一起的每一刻


[今天,對不起]

[愛之前,愛以後]

追求的时候当人家是宝,永远保持着最好的一面...      

刚到手的时候疼人家到骨子里去,
每天给她打十几个电话,发几十条信息,她说什么你都铭记在心,
想吃什么、想买什么、想去哪里你都会尽全力去满足,温柔体贴无微不至,
巴不得二十四个小时都能跟她呆在一起;一开始总是包容的,
就算她的生活习惯与你不同也会努力的调试配合,一切一切都是美好的...   

久了,腻了!每天别说几十个电话,就连1个电话都懒得打,
打电话时只说具体情况,把那些觉得无关要紧的“情趣”话都省了;
信息就更不用说了,她发10条你回有一半你就觉得你回的已经够多了,
就连她打电话给你你都觉得她啰嗦!      

你不会再为她想吃早点而早早起床,
你不会再为她排队买她想要东西,你不会专门请假带她去她想去的地方,
你会觉得她什么事都依赖着你,让你觉得她麻烦事特多!      
接着你会发现她的缺点越来越多,她的优点快被她的缺点掩盖,你快忍无可忍!      
最后,厌了!潇洒的用“分手吧!”
一句简单的言语结束了复杂的感情;或耗着等着,
直到有一天她受不了忽冷忽热或若即若离的态度自己选择离开,
你还可以说是她自己离你而去,你没有负心...      

男人,
你记不记得你曾经说过:“我永远都会对你这么好,一辈子都这样爱着你宠着你!”      不是她麻烦事特多,
是你一开始就说得做得太到位,才会让她依赖上你!      
你记不记得你曾经说过:“不管多晚,睡不着都可以打电话给我,我的手机24小时都为你开机!”      
那你又嫌她不体贴,白天工作的时候打电话打扰到你,
辛苦了一天晚上要睡觉了她还缠着你不肯挂线。
是谁让她养成何时何地想打电话给你就打电话给你的习惯?      
她无理取闹      
那是因为从某一个时间段你的态度变了,你开始冷落她了;
让她觉得没了安全感,由使她起疑心!
不是她不信任你,不给你空间,而是她爱你,在乎你,
用尽所有时间去关心你,你的生活细微改变都牵扯着她的情绪!      

她脾气不好      
那是因为她有很多时候知道了很多事情,
但你不说,她都选择沉默,在一直沉默;
积压到一定的时间她们就会爆发心中的所有怨气;
要知道,这一些都不是她脾气不好,
是你不够细心发觉,她们是一直积压下来的!      

她不再跟以前一样动人      
当初是谁说不喜欢她每天变化多端像只花蝴蝶,
是谁说喜欢她素颜的清纯模样?
虽说喜新厌旧是人性,
除了毛主席跟古董以外,
什么东西看久了都会审美疲劳;
但她不是东西,她是个活生生有着感情的人!      

你不再给她答案,不再给她承诺,
不希望你以后做不到让这些答案跟承诺变成谎言      
那你以前又给她那么多答案,给她那么多承诺,
现在为自己铺好后路可以前承诺过的叫她怎么忘记?
女人不怕诺言没实现,怕的是你承诺了又不去实现,
最后实不实现是另一个问题!      

你忙,你没时间没精力讨好她,你不知道她现在在想什么?      
那你以前不忙吗?你以前是不是就把全部时间用来讨好她而不用工作?
那你以前怎么都那么细心观察她在想什么?      

你觉得你们不配,你不想她再浪费感情在这段没结果的爱情上      
那你一开始追她干嘛?做实验啊?她都已经浪费这么多感情了,
你当感情是水龙头啊,说开就开说关就关!      
对,这一切都是你给自己找的借口!
别以为换个女朋友就可以永远摆脱那种感情暗淡时期,
因为不久的将来你还是得回到这种时光,
下个女朋友也是,下下个女朋友也是,下下下个女朋友也是,
有种你一辈子不谈恋爱不结婚...      

男人们,看完了回想一下你们的那段美好时光,
趁现在没有人偷偷想想是不是你们给自己找借口了?
那个以前深爱的女人现在就那么不值得你爱了么?
别说你瞎了狗眼以前才会跟她在一起,因为你没瞎,也请不要侮辱到狗!      
后悔分手的赶快努力从新追回来,
以后用心经营着共有的感情!


其实女人要的很简单,只想要一个爱自己男人就够了...      
想要分手的考虑清楚,并不是每段感情都可以挽回的!考虑太久也不行,因为她们可以忍耐你冷落她一段时间,但不会一辈子傻下去;
她们再怎么傻,也会给自己一个时间段,
去忍受你的冷落,去相信你的爱;但时间一到,
她们会毫不犹豫的离开,到那时再多的甜言蜜语都没有用了,
因为这世界上没有谁离开谁就活不了!      

恋爱中的,好好珍惜现在那个愿意照顾你,体谅你,
愿意陪你承担风雨的傻女人吧!过了这个村,或许就没这个店了...      
到时间结婚的就结婚吧,不要再拖拖拉拉婆婆妈妈;结婚证一领就像买了保险,
至少心里都有底了...      

爱情,就像煮粥!
滚烫的时候加点配料它就是够火候又有滋有味的;
等到忘记关火煮焦了的时候,
你闻都不想闻它甚至你连锅都想把它扔了...      
看好你的火吧..


[對不起,最近對你冷淡了,不是不愛你,是在想清楚,我還能不能撐下去,我的答案是....我能]